Forgive Me ?€?Friends?€? For I Have Sinned~
by: Lisa Manyon ? www.LisaManyon.com
It?€™s sad but true and I had no idea I was doing anything wrong. I had no idea I was making huge social networking mistakes… That is until I had the extreme pleasure of meeting Nancy Marmolejo of Viva Visibility. Nancy presented at Lorrie Morgan-Ferrero?€™s The She Factor ? event and I learned so much from her.
You see, I?€™ve been making some serious social media faux pas. Luckily, I?€™m not afraid to admit it and make changes in my strategies right away. In fact, I?€™m making this confession with the sincere intent that it will help you, too. Because, my friends, I?€™ve seen some of you making the very same mistakes. And, it?€™s not too late to redeem yourself.
Here?€™s what Nancy taught me. Social marketing and networking is not the same as traditional internet marketing. This was a huge realization for me. While there are similarities in the two, the approach must be different. With social marketing and networking the focus is on quality not quantity. With internet marketing the focus is list building.
Here?€™s where it gets tricky. In both instances the main goal is building relationships. The difference is how those relationships are built. With social networking on Facebook and Twitter(and other social networking platforms) the exchanges must first be personal to truly get to know your ?€?friends?€? or ?€?tweeps?€?. If you immediately send a link to your website on either network it can be considered a bit over the top and too ?€?in your face?€? regardless of your intent. Posting your URL on wall posts on Facebook and intial Twitter intro tweets is considered almost spammy?€¦who knew?
I admit I?€™ve posted my links on other peeps walls. I truly thought I was being helpful but it?€™s not always interpreted that way by others.
Are you beginning to see the difference between social networking and internet marketing? Once Nancy explained this etiquette, I understood immediately that I was actually damaging my social networking reputation because I was approaching it in a more direct manner ?€“ quite similar to internet marketing. So, thanks so much, Nancy. Seriously, sometimes we simply don?€™t know what we don?€™t know.
If you?€™ve been committing social networking sins this comparison chart that Nancy shared can greatly help you reform.
Comparison
Social Marketing/Networking? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? Traditional Internet Marketing
?€¢ Permission Based? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ?€¢ Permission Based
?€¢ Build Relationship? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ?€¢ Build Relationship
? ? ? ? via Networks? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? via the ?€?List?€?
?€¢ Subtle Call to Action? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ?€¢Overt Call to Action
?€¢ Social Component:? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ?€¢ Social Component:
? ? ? Sharing of Networks ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? Not Built In
?€¢ Quality Focus? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ?€¢ Numbers Focus:
? ? ? ? ? Loyalty? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? Build that List!
This comparison chart is just the tip of iceberg of what Nancy can teach you. So, if you?€™re still unsure of your social networking status and proper etiquette, don?€™t leave it to chance. Get support from Nancy today. She rocks!
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November 26th, 2008 at 3:38 pm
I know a lot of internet marketers mean well and are just doing what they think is smart marketing. But it’s true… you can’t do the “sell ‘em” approach in Web 2.0 or folks will run.
Thanks for being brave enough to out yourself and serve as an example of a Reformed Sinner.
stay sizzlin,
Nancy
November 26th, 2008 at 4:02 pm
Thanks for the nice comments, Nancy. You really know your stuff and I appreciate it. I’m prefectly fine with outting myself. I’m only human and I believe in transparency. If I’m not brave enough to share my own mistakes so others (and myself) learn from them, then I’m not really being of service.
Thanks to you I’m all better now (I think).
Write on!~
Lisa
November 27th, 2008 at 12:40 pm
Lisa, I’ve been a fan of Nancy’s wisdom for quite a while. Thanks for the reminder about the differences between social networking and traditional IM. I know we all get carried away sometimes and forget.
December 1st, 2008 at 10:24 am
Lynn,
It’s so true. And, sometimes, we just don’t know what we don’t know.
I learned so much from Nancy. She is simply incredible.
Lisa